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Guest Event Review from Jennifer

November 30th, 2009

Grrrlz (and a few Guyz) Rocked at the Axe & Fiddle on 11/20
Jennifer Kristiansen-Gonzalez
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A young woman stands on the stage at Cottage Grove’s Axe and Fiddle pub, her brunette hair styled with 80s throwback blunt-cut bangs that hang below her eyebrows. She strums her guitar. “How could you ever think you’d get away with it?” she croons with a voice like early-years Jewel. “You’re such an idiot. Do I have your attention now? Do I have to scream it out loud? Do I have your attention now? Do I have to yell it out loud? Again?” Somehow, she doesn’t sound angry. She sounds searching, yearning, exasperated. The song is her own, an original, and it’s the one she knows best out of the set.

The young woman is Grace Mitchell, and she is twelve years old.

Twelve.

Years.

Old.

I don’t know her age until the end of her set, after she plays Iron and Wine’s “Flightless Bird, American Mouth,” The Weepies’ “Stars,” a version of Snow Patrol’s “Chasing Cars” that is nearly better than the original, and ends her set with Leonard Cohen’s “Hallelujah.”

“Grace Mitchell, ladies and gentlemen,” Phredd Talbot, the Axe and Fiddle’s soundman says. “Twelve years old and already breaking hearts.”

Any stumbling she did, any forgetting of Cohen’s lyrics, any shyness she exhibited when I approached the stage with my camera was immediately blown away. She already has more talent and guts than women two and three and four times her age, and with time and more performances all that nervous energy will dissipate, leaving nothing but a soulful, emotional, clear-voiced woman behind.
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After Grace came Moniker (http://www.myspace.com/monikered), a jumping seven-piece band (although they were a six-piece band on Friday; they were down their violinist due to illness) that plays music like sex. Monika Metzler switched to her electric guitar, saying “that was just the foreplay” for a jumpin’ version of “Qué Será Será” that had me wondering why no one was dancing. Fifty people in the pub, and I was the only one on the floor. I couldn’t understand it.

“This song is by a girl who really rocked. She’s not with us anymore, but she gave a lot to the world,” Monika said before they launched into Aaliyah’s “Are You that Somebody?”

Moniker’s mixture of rock guitar, trumpet, baritone saxophone, and jazzy drums and bass had me lamenting the fact that I had to go home alone.

But I wasn’t going home yet. Halie Loren (http://www.youtube.com/user/halieloren) was up next. The Grrrlz Rock! event was her second appearance at the Axe and Fiddle. “I love this place,” she said. She’s not alone in that, that’s for sure.

With Matt Treader joining her for a few songs on piano, Loren played a double set that opened with Joni Mitchell’s “River” and ended with “Lucky,” an original tune that is about all the things and people in life for which the narrator feels grateful.  In between, she sang originals and covers in a voice clear like glacier water. Some songs she wrote when she was 17 and living in Nashville. Others, like Tracy Chapman’s “Give Me one Reason” and U2’s “Still Haven’t Found (What I’m Lookin’ For)” sounded better than the originals. There’s just something about a woman alone with her piano that I can’t help loving. Sorry, Bono, but Loren has you beat.

“All the Girls” had a very Annie Lennox sound, Joni Mitchell’s “Carrie” nearly made me cry, and while she didn’t know any songs from the Muppets (Talbot’s suggestion when she said she was willing to take requests), she played “Pieces of Me,” an original from a now sold-out benefit CD that I wanted to ship to my best friend, who is losing another close friend to lung failure caused by Cystic Fibrosis. “When I’m passing through the memory/remember me for love,” Loren sang, and my heart went out to Courtney Hill, in a hospital far away, soon to be nothing more than memory.

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Guest Review by Amy Ruben

November 25th, 2009

Last Saturday, Sam Bond’s Garage, located in the vibrant, eclectic and ever evolving Whiteaker neighborhood and Blair Historic District In Eugene, hosted a night of diverse musical entertainment. Sam Bond’s – a local favorite – provides a warm, laid back atmosphere to sit back, relax and enjoy some great music. Loyal fans and Sam Bond’s regulars came to support both the musicians and the bands. The great musical talent combined with the warm, local feel of Sam Bonds made Saturday night a night to remember! Keep your eyes peeled for more Grrrlz Rock events! Check out this short video from Saturday night!

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The 411: Women’s Self-Defense

November 24th, 2009

By: Claire Kapp and Sarah Helfgott

“You girls are whores!” The words echo in my ears, but I ignore them. A few of my friends yell “ass holes” and “douche bags” at the men who insulted us, but that is the extent of our fighting back. Sure enough, we fuel a name calling battle. “You’re a bitch!” one of the men exclaims. We walk away quickly, leaving the men to yell at other random girls leaving the bar. I quickly forget about the situation.

My friend Danielle, however, doesn’t forget as easily. “They called us whores!” she says in outrage. Clearly, she thinks the situation was more dangerous than we’d realized. “That was so disrespectful and none of us did anything about it! Why?” She demands. I can’t look her in the eyes, but I respond to her question. “There was nothing we could have done!” At this point, I’m getting irritated. Does she think that us little sorority girls could have beat those guys up or something? Doubtful.

Fast forward to a month later. It’s November 22 and my friend Claire (who was with me the night the men called us “whores”) and I attend a SASS Woman’s Self-Defense Workshop put on by Grrrlz Rock. We went into the event assuming we would learn basic physical self-defense maneuvers that would magically help us protect ourselves from rapists and murders.

Women tend to assume that defending themselves from sexual situations has to be done with force, but often force is unnecessary. We learned in the class that strong words are sometimes as powerful as physical defenses.

When using words, our teacher Elly Maloney taught us to formulate “I statements” as opposed to simply insulting our attacker. These “I statements” can start with “I feel…” or “I think…” or “I need…” They set boundaries and force your attacker to listen to you. No one responds well to being blatantly insulted.

Ok, we all know that words don’t always work. Sometimes you’re only option is to use your body as a weapon. In this situation, we learned it is important to aim for the three primary targets of the human body: throat, eyes and knees. These three spots cause more than just pain. They can actually disable the attacker. If you really want to be scary-movie status, you can even gauge out their eyes.

While using your body as a weapon, you’ll find that your palm, elbow and foot are the easiest body parts to use.

So ladies, when you find yourselves in a situation similar to what we found ourselves in with our friend Danielle (and you will), remember to use those “I statements” instead of insulting your attacker. Otherwise, you might find yourself in an insult war, or possibly something even more dangerous.

Although force probably wasn’t necessary the other night when we were leaving the bar and those men yelled at us, our friend Danielle was right, we could have been more constructive with our words

I speak for both Claire and myself when I say that we left the workshop feeling both empowered and strong. There is always SOMETHING you can do. As women, we don’t have to sit back and allow men to make us feel uncomfortable.

To learn more about SASS you can call their business line at 541-484-9791 and for self-defense programs specifically, their extension is 319. We recommend all women take at least one self-defense workshop at some point to gain a more complete understanding of how they can protect themselves in sexual assault situations.

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Guest Event Review by Ashlea and Drew

November 23rd, 2009

Tuesday night, November 17th, Grrrlz Rock kicked off its first ever Family Potluck and Karaoke Extravaganza! True Grrrlz Rock fans showed up at the Sheldon Community Center for an evening of food, singing, dancing and great conversation. Women of all ages, including a rockin’ chick around the age of six, took turns participating in the karaoke and got to show off their talent!

This was our first time attending a Grrrlz Rock event and it truly rocked with friendly people and fun music. It was wonderful seeing friends and strangers gather and connect over a passion for music, community, and of course, Grrrlz Rock. Cindy Ingram, Grrrlz Rock founder, was there to meet and greet familiar and new faces and enthusiastically displayed her love for the festival and excitement for all the involvement and support from the community.

The potluck proved to be a success for its first time on the Grrrlz Rock agenda and we can’t wait to attend the next event! Check out an interview we had with Cindy and see some karaoke in the videos below!


By Ashlea Holcomb and Drew Metzger

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Guest Post by Nathan Ichtertz

November 19th, 2009

“Straightlaced” brings gender and sexuality issues to the surface

As part of Trans Awareness Week in Eugene, Grrrlz Rock hosted a viewing of the documentary “Straightlaced” on Wednesday at the University of Oregon.

The film is about a diverse group of teens who open up on issues such as sexuality, gender and body image and offer their candid, eye-opening perspectives. “Straightlaced” features teens who self-identify as straight, lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender.

Edgar, a 20-year-old gay college student, told me that as a Latino living in Eugene, a city with a fairly small Latino population, that he feels that many people still aren’t always welcoming or well-informed about gays and lesbians and he hopes that films such as “Straightlaced” help to raise awareness and create acceptance of LGBT people on a larger scale.

“I’m proud of who I am and I want other people to feel the same,” he said.

“Straightlaced” is a must see for anyone interested in learning more about society’s constraints on teenage men and women and the battles they face in being accepted both sexually and gender-wise.

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Guest Post by Megumi Kato

November 19th, 2009

Weekend GrrrlzRock Event:

Imagine a casual environment and cozy ambience complemented with an eclectic mix of local bands in the heart of downtown Eugene. Last weekend’s event at Cozmic Pizza was exactly of this nature plus tasty food ranging from the traditional cheese and marinara pizza to a build-your-own calzone. It was getting to be late afternoon (great job Ducks vs. Arizona), but loyal fans came to support both the musicians and the band. The support was ample, the crowd was appreciative, and both the stomach and need for music were satisfied. Although I was only able to stay for one performance, my first experience at the Grrrlz Rock benefit…rocked! Keep your eyes out for more of these live events that are a benefit to both the band and the cause! Check out this short video!

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Guest Event Preview by Ashlea

November 15th, 2009

Aqua NIA Jam

If you love swimming, rocking out to amazing music, working up a sweat and having a phenomenal time, then Grrrlz Rock’s Aqua Nia Dance Jam is for you!

The fitness technique of Nia is a combination of a variety of dance forms, martial arts and yoga and is created for people of all ages and abilities. Nia provides an empowering experience that refreshes the soul and expands one’s connection with her or his own mind and body — all while letting loose and having a good time with old and new friends. Awaken your inner dance goddess — the workout is hot, wet and fiery: Completely out of this world.

What better way to push aside the stress of the week than a huge dance party in a comfortably heated pool? It just doesn’t get any better than this. DJ FastLayne will be spinning tracks poolside and getting the party started with her funky Indie music style, while local NIA instructor, Katie Strong, will lead the celebration with the nine exhilarating, sensual movement forms of Classic NIA.

The party takes place Friday, Nov. 20, from 8-10 p.m. at the Tamarack Wellness Center and only costs $9 for this epic, invigorating event (for those with VIP passes, the cost is $4.50). The doors are open to anyone over 18 years of age, but make sure to arrive early due to limited space!

If you want to be part of an extraordinary event that is creating some serious buzz, come ready to get wet and literally dance the night away to the exotic movement of Aqua Nia.

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So many photos!

November 12th, 2009

Last weekend’s Prehistoric Beatz + Beatz Dance Party was soo much fun! Please check out the guest blog posted on the Ticket Files for the Register Guard by  James Stegall. In addition to the post review, he also posted photos and this video. Thanks James!

In addition to James. We also have some more photos from Amanda and Lynnea! Awesome! Thanks.

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Guest Post by Jennifer Kristiansen-Gonzalez

November 10th, 2009

When I think of art after sex, I think of self-portraits of women with soft curves and stretch marks. Angry, healing works inspired by unwanted cesaerean sections. Mixed media collages of ticket stubs and condom wrappers from post-divorce one-night stands.

So, when I arrived at M.E.C.C.A. ten minutes late for their dual fundraiser with Doulas Supporting Teens, it was with a feeling of excitement and anticipation. I looked forward to the creativity and variety the women of Eugene would create.

I was the only person to show up.

M.E.C.C.A director Mija Andrade and Doulas Supporting Teens director
Iris Bicksler remained unphased. “I wouldn’t be a very good non-
profit director if every failed fundraiser got to me,” Andrade said.

“The women who participate in Grrrlz Rock events,” Bicksler told me,
“fall into three categories: younger women, moms who want to take
their kids to the family-friendly stuff, and middle-aged or older
women with grown children.”

Bicksler and Andrade had marketed “Art after Sex” to their mailing
lists and relied on Grrrlz Rock for the rest, hoping that a few
members of each of three demographic groups would attend.

Standing in the wide-open creative space, photos of smiling teen moms
and birthing books scattered about, Bicksler and Andrade brainstormed.
How could this type of event be more successful?

Focus it more, they decided. Andrade mentioned women with children her
age or older who had belly casts in their closets, unpainted and
collecting dust. A belly cast class, the two women agreed, has the
possibility of better turnout.

Lowering the cost might help, too. The general consensus among women I
spoke with about the event was $25 is too much to ask for a three-
hour art class. Bicksler and Andrade discussed the cost issue, as
well.
In times when everyone cuts their budget, do non-profits go for the
high-rollers and get a few donors, or do they lower prices and hope
for more participants? For now, at least, the answer seems to be have
more low-cost events and hope for high turnout.

For those wishing to contribute to Doulas Supporting Teens, an all-
volunteer organization providing pregnancy, labor, breastfeeding, and
parenting support to women under 18, visit
www.DoulasSupportingTeens.org  or call 344-1091.

Membership to M.E.C.C.A., which starts at $20, can be made by calling 302-1810, visiting their location at 449 Willamette, or going to their
website: www.materials-exchange.org.

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Got Radio?

November 5th, 2009

Be sure to tune into you favorite local stations (KWVA, KRVM and KLCC) to catch a series of Grrrlz Rock live performances and interviews!

Thursday Nov. 5th, 5pm: KWVA Rabbit Hole radio w/DJ Kellsj: Circa Vitae
Thursday Nov. 12th, 11amKLCC with Michael CanningCindy Ingram and Savanna Coen
Thursday Nov. 12th, 5pm: KWVA Rabbit Hole radio w/DJ Kellsj: The Dead Americans
Friday Nov. 13th, 3pm: KRVM with Dj Adam: Bajuana Tea
Sunday Nov. 15th, 6pm: KRVM with Rockin’ Rome: Halie Loren

Thursday Nov. 19th, 5pm: KWVA Rabbit Hole radio w/DJ Kellsj: Crooked River

Friday Nov. 20th, 3pm: KRVM with Dj Adam: Melissa Ruth (tentative)
Sunday Nov. 22th, 6pm: KRVM with Rockin’ Rome: The Beat Crunchers
Thursday Nov. 26th, 5pm: KWVA Rabit Hole radio w/DJ Kellsj: The T-Club (tentative)

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